www.speakingofhearts.com http://www.speakingofhearts.com Sat, 17 Sep 2011 00:00:00 +0000 en hourly 1 MAKING SURE YOU CAN OPEN UP AROUND LARGE GROUPS http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/17/making-sure-you-can-open-up-around-large-groups/ http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/17/making-sure-you-can-open-up-around-large-groups/#comments Sat, 17 Sep 2011 00:00:00 +0000 admin http://www.speakingofhearts.com/&p=10 The majority of people are not used to addressing large groups of people. Often, it produces fear, and anxiety for many people. Therefore, it is helpful for anyone who plans to speak to a group to know some public speaking tips.

When people are listening to someone addressing them, the speaker needs to appear and sound as if it everything is flowing naturally. It is essential that the person does not mumble or trip over his or her words. If the person appears as if they are anxious and nervous, the audience is unlikely to believe anything that they are saying.Didn-t catch that? This explains it. An audience needs to know that the person, who is asking them to trust what they are hearing, is something that the speaker also believes.

When some speaks in front of a group, they need to stay calm, while trying not to react to their fears. A show of confidence will hold a large group of people-s attention. Prior to any scheduled speaking engagement, it can help to practice before a few friends. Often, friends are the ones that will end of being the best audiences. They can provide several great tips as to what is best for engaging an audience.

]]> http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/17/making-sure-you-can-open-up-around-large-groups/feed/ 0 HOW TO OPEN UP AND BE VOCAL IN A GROUP SETTING http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/10/how-to-open-up-and-be-vocal-in-a-group-setting/ http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/10/how-to-open-up-and-be-vocal-in-a-group-setting/#comments Sat, 10 Sep 2011 00:00:00 +0000 admin http://www.speakingofhearts.com/&p=8 When asked in some studies what people feared most, it wasn’t dying, it was speaking in a group. Not surprisingly, people find speaking in a group very intimidating and somewhat scary. They are self conscious and nervous.

First, no matter what situation you have to speak in a group, at work, socially or in a meeting of people you choose to be with, practice speaking. Speak in front of a mirror. You will realize you don’t look any worse than anyone else. Practice keeping a flow of words coming out. Read from a book so you can continue speaking without needing to pause.

If you need to give a speech or presentation at work, you will be allowed to look at notes while doing so. This really saves time, anyway. You will not have to memorize verbatim everything you wish to say.

If you are speaking in a meeting of people where you were not prepared to speak, but wish to contribute, think before you speak of what you want to say for a minute. Then, just do it. The worst that will happen is that you falter a little. This does happen to everyone until you get used to it.

]]> http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/10/how-to-open-up-and-be-vocal-in-a-group-setting/feed/ 0 THE BEST WAYS TO AVOID SHYNESS – SPEAK UP IN PUBLIC http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/08/the-best-ways-to-avoid-shyness-speak-up-in-public/ http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/08/the-best-ways-to-avoid-shyness-speak-up-in-public/#comments Thu, 08 Sep 2011 00:00:00 +0000 admin http://www.speakingofhearts.com/&p=7 Shyness inflicts a lot of people, and this is especially true when it is time to do a public speech. People that are shy may suffer from self-consciousness and low self-esteem, and may believe that their speech will not be as polished or as good as someone else-s speech. It is well worth it to try to overcome shyness since being too fearful of public speaking can seriously limit your personal growth and career prospects. There are a few methods that can be tried to help overcome shyness. For starters, you may want to try practice speaking to yourself in a mirror at home. This will help to make you feel more confident in your presentation abilities. Another thing that may help is to ask a group of close friends to listen to your speech and give you helpful hints. Also, another great way to overcome shyness is to take a speech class at a community center or college, or to volunteer for an organization where public speaking is necessary. By taking baby steps, you will soon start to feel more confident and will be set free from the shyness that overcomes the wonderful opportunities that lie in front of you.

]]> http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/08/the-best-ways-to-avoid-shyness-speak-up-in-public/feed/ 0 A GUIDE TO TRAINING YOURSELF TO SPEAK OPENLY IN PUBLIC http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/07/a-guide-to-training-yourself-to-speak-openly-in-public/ http://www.speakingofhearts.com/2011/09/07/a-guide-to-training-yourself-to-speak-openly-in-public/#comments Wed, 07 Sep 2011 00:00:00 +0000 admin http://www.speakingofhearts.com/&p=6 Study after study has revealed that pubic speaking is the most commonly feared activity. Conquering this feel is essential in getting ahead in life. Whether you are going to take a simple job interview or speak in front of hundreds, confidence in your ability to communicate openly is integral to success. Here are a few ways to train yourself to speak in public:

1) Know your subject matter. The key to public speaking is confidence and you cannot be confident if you are not prepared. Have a firm grasp of the material you will be addressing.

2) Rehearse. Practice is the single most important thing in mastering any activity and public speaking is no different. Stand before a full length mirror or even family or friends who will support you and try out your speech. This will help you familiarize you with the sensation of having many eyes on your at once.

3) Have proper rest and hydration prior to the speaking engagement. These two factors can go a long way to alleviating nerves and stress.

4) Articulate and amplify your voice. When speaking, you want your message to be clearly heard. Make sure you are pronouncing words properly and speaking loud enough for all in the audience to hear.You thought this was good? Brace yourself: Meet up with others for public speaking practice

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